The Fifth of July

The Fifth of July

When I was a little kid, we were too poor to afford fireworks. I suppose I can’t blame my pyrotechnic poverty just on being poor, but more on the fact that my mother didn’t think any part of the welfare check should be spent on frivolity. If we got fireworks, we didn’t get clothes, or we didn’t get food. Sure, it was a practical choice, but as a kid, you just want to rip into the hundred dollar “Independence Day” box of fireworks.

Our fireworkslessness meant that in the days leading up to the Fourth of July every year, we’d visit our more affluent friends and watch them light fireworks. Back then this annual ritual led me to conclude that socio-economic status could be identified by the characteristics of your fireworks.

If you had no color, just sound, you weren’t poor, but you weren’t living in a mansion. You lived in an apartment and shared a bedroom with a couple of siblings. The same went for fireworks with no sound, and just smoke.

If you had fireworks that were colorful, but just rolled around on the ground, you lived in one of the houses in a duplex.

If your fireworks shot color into the air, and did so while crackling, at least one of your parents had a full-time job and probably owned a house with a yard and a driveway (or at least they’d found a way to live in one).

In my family, we didn’t have any fireworks before and up to the Fourth of July. We didn’t get to light something and have sound, or color. Maybe, if we got lucky, someone handed us a sparkler. In the bad years, they handed us the punk used to light the fireworks. Yep, there’s the poor kid, the one with the smoldering ember.

Occasionally, when the sounds of Fourth of July were so muddled that you couldn’t tell the fireworks from the gunshots fired into the air, we pretended to be fireworks. I mean, if you’re a nine-year-old and you scream from a low tone to a very high one, you sound kind of like a Piccolo Pete. And besides, by nightfall, no one even knows what’s going on in neighboring yards, driveways, or streets. Everyone is just staring into the sky, looking for something to make the darkness light. That means there is no risk of being seen joining the cacophony of Independence Day sound, while in your pajamas, from just inside your apartment’s living room window.

I watched from the shadows every year until the Fifth of July. That was the day when my cousin Reggie would come over and my mom, and my sister, and my Tía Rosalba, and my other cousins, and I would go to the local park. Salt Lake Park was the one where the big neighborhood fireworks were set off, and the official, city-sanctioned Fourth of July safe zone for amateur fireworks displays.

We never went to the show on the Fourth of July. My mom was scared that going to the park after dark would make us victims of violent crime, and my Tía Rosalba was a Jehovah’s Witness. Her family didn’t celebrate the Fourth of July.

But, on the Fifth of July, Reggie, Virginia, and I made sure to take a magnifying glass to the park. Our families would stake out a spot next to a tree, drag over a picnic bench, pull out aluminum foil-wrapped burritos, and play dominoes.

Virginia, Reggie, and I headed straight for the previous night’s launching pad.

We crawled around every inch of that soccer-field sized patch of grass, looking for unused fireworks. Although not plentiful, and not colorful, little by little, we’d find some fireworks.

At first, we’d find little black charcoal disks. While we weren’t allowed to buy fireworks, and we weren’t allowed to play with matches, we did know what unused fireworks looked like, and how to start a fire without matches, so out came the magnifying glass.

We figured out the sun’s angle, and the length of time needed to create a flame, and voilà, black plumes of ash came up from the earth and “snakes” came to life.

My sister, Virginia, tore holes in the knees of her jeans and Reggie got dirt in his eyes, before we found another unused firecracker.

Lighting our fireworks became easier with each successive find. We’d get sound, and some smoke, and then we’d laugh hysterically and roll around in laughter on the charred firecracker paper and ashes left from the night before.

Although there were never more than about ten unused fireworks for us to light every year, we had gotten the chance to shoot off some fireworks after all. On the Fifth of July we had not been denied the simple pleasure of creating marvels of sound and sight.

We all knew that our scavenging hadn’t made us children of homeowners this year, but it was understood that ingenuity would get us there some year, maybe next year.

© Laura Genao 2007

Paris Je T’aime

Paris Je T’aime

I spent my high school years making sure I spoke and wrote Spanish correctly.  That meant that although I was a native speaker, I spent two years in native speakers’ Spanish classes and then another in an AP Spanish class.  In college, I spent another two years reading Spanish literature (yeah, that means El Cid in the original Spanish).

When I finally thought to learn another language, my best friend convinced me to try German.  After two semesters I still got to the final not knowing what the questions were asking. 

While I’m glad I learned my Spanish, this week I really wish I knew French.  It sure would be nice to speak it this time around when I’m there.  I am doing the compact disk version of French lessons, but I’ve realized I’m a visual learner, so I wish I could just sit in class and see the lessons on a board.  No time for that, the trip is near.  And, so far, all I can do is ask directions to Rue St. Michel.  Yippee!! (I guess).

Father(less) Day

Father(less) Day

I grew up without a father, but I do have a general, favorite Father’s Day memory.

Every year, my church had a children’s choir made up of the 12-18 year olds.  Of the 15 or so kids, only five or so had relationships with their fathers. 

To this day, I find amusing that no one else saw the humor in having a children’s choir primarily made up of children who had no idea what it was like to have a dad around. 

Someone once tried to convince me that there was nothing wrong with this circumstance, because the fatherless could just direct their paternal rejoicing at God.  Yeah, Father’s Day is about God.  Nice try.

Su Terreno

Su Terreno

My mom doesn’t own a car, or a home, or anything of real value, but she has a burial plot.  She scrimped and saved and bought it a few months after her heart attack a few years ago.

I find her pride in the purchase of this burial plot odd.  I guess she’s glad that we won’t be burdened with deciding on where she’ll be buried when she dies.  Or perhaps she’s just happy to know where her body will be laid to rest (near a tree on a grassy hill). 

Whatever the reason for her pride in being able to buy the burial plot, it creeps me out when she asks me to take her there to visit.  It’s a cemetery, not a park, and I’ll wait until I absolutely have to to see that place.